Computer, as a word, sounds sterile and boring. They are prey for larger carnivores and may be carriers of Feline Immunodeficiency virus, which can be transmitted to domestic cats. When Virgo leans towards obsessive-compulsive cleanliness, all is well with this pairing. You can't win these interactions. If by any chance hes single in a year or 2 time then perhaps something may form out of that but for now focus on mentally and emotionally getting over him. They sound unwilling to offer any tiny bit of their leisure time where they can do whatever pleases them for a relationship.