So please either register or login. When the 50 Shades of Grey movie was announced and casting begin, Ian Somerhalder was believed to be in the running. If you want to know how to do it, just follow these steps. User Comments 3 Post a comment Comment: In order to post a comment you have to be logged in. Cancershorti, how are we supposed to know when he wants us to cling to him? We use a technology provided by Facebook called The Facebook Pixel. The point is, we spend so much time together, he shows me he cares in numerous ways, wants to take me out, on trips, do everythign with me, his friends and mother know of me and he alwys tries to make me happy. White male privilege strikes again!