This is used to detect comment spam. I don't know what to think. Do not cross your arms or put your hands on your hips when asking probing questions. Its way worst that he got married with adultery preplanned. I pray for him more than anyone else everyday. If you really go there for a purpose to relax and unwind you could have done it girl but I guess you have other purpose of going there and that is to list down all the negative things and good job!