Go see a gynecologist, and ask them what they are required to tell your parents, and what they would tell your parents if your parents ask, and what they wouldn't divulge if you ask them not to. Cheating Girl Next Door. In those instances, how you can expect to have any kind of quality in terms of behaviour, but also general respect for one another? Not only that but he said you look like his ex. There's no question that that stuff is important, but I just don't think this method will produce the most accurate information on how someone really acts in a relationship. Of course, there are also religious reasons holding them back.