As long as you have clearly-set goals, there certainly will be a way to attain them. Long story short he made me feel terrible for not being able to help him since he said he spent all his money to send me the package and had no access to his account. When we believe something that is out of alignment with reality, we suffer…. If the girl showed up we considered that a win for the site. Saying "I love you" is a hard thing to do. She has yet to try to reach out to her colleagues. A year and a half later, they asked me to marry them. Who needs a story arc when you can just read about people getting it on and having a good time with it?