Men come and go. I was totally shocked and did not see that coming as there were no signs at all. In the meeting day, i do not flirt or bring sexual topics. You're quite literally deciding if you want to interact with someone based on nothing but profile pictures and a quote from The Office , so yeah, you can see how getting laid would be the main goal of most users — but hey, we all know those couples who met on Tinder and have been together for years.