It is a well-known fact. Most women need a little help from your hand, tongue or vibrator. I know it's natural to want to discover a little about someone's culture when you start dating someone from a different country, but only having known him for a month I get the impression you're focusing too much on his background, almost as though you're banking on spending the rest of your life with him. He is able to explore new worlds with his bubbly girl. If you are genuinely excited to see him, have a strong reaction to his physical presence, and could chat with him for hours on end, chances are you like him. Ive come to really like him and i wont lie and say we dont fool around. Also the things I see irl back up their stories. Guys do have perspective that needs to be shared.