I've identified 2 dozen of them, and organized them into what we call Attractive Archtypes. Relationship expectations lean more casual on Okcupid compared to Match. You'll learn to love it W hen on operations, discard the concept of time. This sounds scary, but there are a couple problems with it. Keep in mind that a married woman who is unhappy will be looking for a man that can excite her and someone she can have a passionate relationship with. Being in love is the rare time you'll ever find him unable to contain his feelings and feeling a bit out of control. If you are just getting to know someone and want to kiss them, one of the hardest and most exciting moments is not knowing whether they want to kiss you, too. Though he will talk to me, at times.