Being Suspicious Have you ever suspected your partner of cheating? I was on pof and noticed a girl I recently seen on Facebook too. I know everyone has their own policy on this, but for me: To be frank, that only confirmed to me that we were better off ending this now. It's a place where genuine, ambitious people can go to find like-minded users, and is perfect for people who are tired of being scammed. This type of guy needs some special encouragement, so try not to take it too personally.