And that usually stems from a general misunderstanding of what it means to flirt with another person. Sub this in for that old hoodie he always wears — a button up shirt is perfect for almost every occasion, and is crafted with comfort for such. It's still X-rated though, don't you worry — you'll realize that when you're bombarded by gross ads. Because the member base isn't as robust and is more spread out geographically, you might want to be a little more lenient with your mile radius when it comes to the matches they suggest.