It might be time to let a hookup site or app take the wheel. I wanted to update my review as I feel Elite has made a great attempt to resolve the issues I experienced. Hahaha, yes, I've never heard of a straight guy wanting his girlfriend's hair to be short. And if he really wishes for her happiness, he ought to consider what she wants. Share This Page Tweet. It means challenging her, teasing her, being picky, being mysterious, being hard to get, being dominant… and the list of things you can do via text to keep her interested goes on and on. I'm not getting anywhere involved with her again except on a friendship basis.